When someone tells me I'm quiet, it makes me feel stupid. I don't know why. I don't take it as a direct dis on my personality or who I am, but yet I feel soooo dumb when I'm told I'm quiet. Yes, I can be. I can be a major introvert.
Alot of times, I'm happy just listening and observing. It's hard for me to be outgoing in a group that have known each other for a while and all of a sudden I've arrived as the resident, awkward, new girl.
So, I'm trying to figure out why I associate being told I'm quiet with negative feelings. I dont know what it is...it jsut makes me feel like a dumb, scared, sheltered, little girl who needs her mommy to do the talking for her. Not cool.
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